Carlos – Restoring Relationships: Embracing the Eighth Tradition of Alcoholics Anonymous

Hey there, it’s Carlos, your amigo on the journey to sobriety and self-discovery. Today, let’s dive into the wisdom of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and explore the transformative power of the Eighth Tradition—a guiding principle that speaks to the importance of making amends and restoring relationships.

The Eighth Tradition states: “Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever non-professional, but our service centers may employ special workers.” Now, you might be wondering what this has to do with restoring relationships, so let me break it down for you.

At its core, the Eighth Tradition is a reminder that AA is a fellowship of equals—a community of individuals who come together to support each other on the journey to recovery. It’s about more than just getting sober—it’s about healing the wounds of the past and repairing the relationships that may have been damaged along the way.

For me, the Eighth Tradition is a powerful lesson in humility and accountability. It’s about taking responsibility for our actions and making amends to those we may have hurt during our years of drinking. By remaining non-professional, AA emphasizes that the focus should always be on personal growth and spiritual development, rather than on financial gain or professional status.

But here’s the beautiful thing about the Eighth Tradition: it’s not just about making amends—it’s about rebuilding trust and restoring relationships. By reaching out to those we’ve wronged, whether through a heartfelt apology, a sincere conversation, or a commitment to change, we have the opportunity to mend the bonds that were once broken.

So, next time you find yourself reflecting on the Eighth Tradition, remember the power of forgiveness and the importance of restoring relationships. Let’s continue to walk this journey together, with humility, accountability, and a commitment to healing. Together, we can make amends and build a brighter future for ourselves and those we love.